I totally agree with you, the church of Jesus needs to rise up and speak the truth in love. I was just thinking last night how the church of today is so segregated. I was surfing to find out about a ministry I'm interested in and their video kept point to the denomination of the church. This brought a big check in my spirit, it just didn't seem right that the denomination was highlighted and not "Just Christ". I find the same kind of reflection when it comes to issues that are taboo. I really feel that we can educate the church to a point but if the act of love isn't our primary objective then we end back up at square one. So the question still lies, how do we reach them with the message? From the examples of Christ it's just loving and doing for others as we would like to be done for us. Would I like for someone to slam something down my throat, NO. Would I want someone to tell me I'm going to hell, NO. Would I want someone to love me and show me that by loving me right in the middle of my sin, YES. Christ is our example, He died, chose us when we were still dead in sin. Paul says, that if we are walking in the fruits of the spirit then no one can point to any but Christ. You are right, this issue is going to take dieing to self through and through. A love revolution is what we need.